MEEEET-MY-PARENTS SESSSION!
As mentioned earlier on, boyf's going to meeet my parents tonight for dinnner. it was seriously a scary moment. i shall tell you hoowwww i felt all about this while going in to the details on how was the dinner later on! So peoplee, just have a little more patience to read on!
Well,it seeemed to be like a normal meeeting. like eating dinner outside to get to know each other more. but to me, it isnt! i had told my mummy's about boyf, what do we do and stufff. and remember the 7th aunty incident? i even told mummmy about how serious me and boyf are. and yes, you guys should know how parents might looook at us. all parents have this mindset that, "what can young teenagers come out of a relationship?" or maybe my mum would think else else far awayy. cant blame, cause afterall, i'm my parents' one and only precious gems in the family. So, the problem lies on, "how to convince both my parents that we're serious towards one another?" this might be one small question to you guys, but it was much much more complicated. first, it was impression. yes, the first impression on how my parents will loook on boyf. and although i'm their child , i might not know what's the best to wear, to loook so as to loook presentable to them?and thats' haaaardddd. secondly, how do we neeed to react on things? hopefully not to split out wrong things? and lastly, what if both my parents dont talk? and thats the worst situation afterall! because atmostphere will get even more weird when time goes on. just imagine, after introduction, everyone then started eating. then, you would eat yours and i would eat mine. it would be prefectly normal for families? but not even gettting or starting to knowwww someone and start eating seeeemed weird? or even worst, they dont even bother! eeewww.=/ . And so before 6pm strikes, my mind seeemed to be like a roller-coaster in the theme parkk. and , i really really want this to go on smooothly.
and similarly, boyf dint feeeel comfortable too? a moment ago, he was round his lapppy loooking perfectly alright. but who's know what he might be thinking? i bet at least part of this matter does matter or troubled him.! and a moment, he came out of the bathrooom ,fearing that he might not loook presentable in front of my parents. heh! and while on the way to pasir ris, i guess we have a really really hard time to let each other feel comfortable. Well, but the thought of going through together with boyf did really calm me down at times. afterall, they are my own parents! how scary would they go afterall then?
So, sakura in downtown was my parents's first impresssion of boyf. and then, introduction/greeeeting ,starting to take foood and stufff. (i'm not gonnna go into very details because after all,it's it might not be interesting to you guys.) but i'm just prettty shocked that , daddddy' turned out to talk moreee than mummmy does! he asked the most question, talked the most and joked the most! heh!
+one point : mummmy wore the expensive/shiny/silvery ring out. and she seldom wore it out. !thats means how important she treated this dinnner, and she wanted boyf to have a goood impresssion of her.!
+one point : when daaaddddy's acting just like himself where he do not act like he doesnt talk, act like he's daaam strict and fierce. whats more, he joked right infront of boyf, and and and boyf laugh at his joke! heh!
+one point : and when dinner ended,daddddy and mummmy even let boyf be with me while they headed to fairprice to buy their daily products. and whats more, when boyf helped out, they are even willling to let him help out.!
heh heh! to me, all these small littttle things do count! and somehow, it makes me felt that, some how both my parents had treated boyf as part of our family. where not even things like "gettting embarrased" matters, where "laughing together" had long ago be a habit. it's interesting to seee how things reaallly get on tracks, where me and boyf's target are met. and what's even more happppy would be the feeedback that i've got from my parents.
in summary:
mummmy saaaayyy " not so baaaad lah! gary is _______, and he even have _________ to call us to eat when dinnner and thank us for the dinnner.
and in goood point, daddddy saaaayyyy" at least his family's not ____________, and i can seee he's not those kind of "_______________" person. whats more, he knows about his family situation, know how to think and ____________ to think of his future. "
and in baaddddd , he was telling me :" waaaa, you will be very _______next time. his whole family seeeemed to rely on _____ _________. you bettter go and learn some ______________, i tell you. (HEH! dont ever try to fill in the blanks here, cause it might not be coorrreeccct! ;P) anyways, those baaaddd points my dadddddy sayy seeemed to be a goood point to me, because i can feeel he knows that we're serious about the relationship. so afterall a +1point here?(;
okay people, you might be laughing till here. it seeemed that we're gettting very ridiculous about this thing. it feeels like, we're gonnnna get marrried and stufff . but, we did this for a purpose. at least after this, we would not neeed to tou(1)tou(1)mo(1)mo(1) to go dating and stuffff. and whats' more , we've both my parents blesssing in our relationship. and i believe it will continue even further and further. (;
heh!, i do have a memorable dinnner. and that first ever family dinnner with boyf did end beautifully with a full-stop here. ;D
and to boyfriend,i'm starting to like this picture even more and more. this picture which was tooook so suddenly, seeeemed to deplicts on how we met each other. a moment ago, it seeemed like we're of a diffferent world, and now, it gonna be like 7days more to our 3rd. you're a goood boyfriend,and thanks for loving me so much. though sometimes, you're shy to show it all out,but i know you do. i love you sillyboy (:withmanymanymanyloves
♥in my mind, there's a picture. a picture of me being with you. and i'm glad that the picture gets clearer and clearer each time.
